The ordinary expectation of privacy
What you discuss in counseling is generally treated as private. John does not approach the work casually or share information simply because someone asks. Records and disclosures are handled within professional and legal responsibilities.
Because couples counseling involves two clients in one relationship, both partners deserve a clear explanation of how confidentiality applies to the work.
Limits involving serious harm
Confidentiality may be limited when there is a risk of serious harm to yourself or another person. In those situations, a counselor may need to act to protect safety rather than keep the information private.
The exact response depends on the circumstances and legal duties. This practice is not a crisis service and does not provide emergency care.
Abuse, neglect, and court orders
Other ordinary limits can include suspected abuse or neglect of a child or vulnerable adult, as well as a valid court order requiring information. These obligations are not optional promises a counselor can set aside.
John explains the applicable limits directly. The site disclaimer provides additional general information and can be read at the Disclaimer page.
Questions about secrets between partners
Couples counselors differ in how they handle information one partner shares outside a joint session. John's policy on secrets between partners is something he goes over with both of you directly.
This page does not invent that policy or promise that particular information will be held from the other partner. Ask before sharing something when the answer matters to you.
What a session actually looks like
Both partners attend a 50-minute telehealth session while physically in Texas. John focuses on what happens between you and helps each person speak honestly without turning the hour into two separate individual sessions.
Privacy at home matters too. Join from a place where you can speak freely, use headphones if needed, and tell John if someone enters or the setting is no longer private.
Ask before you assume
The free 30-minute consultation is an appropriate place to ask general questions about privacy, records, and confidentiality. Detailed personal disclosure is not needed for that fit conversation.
Sessions are $175 for 50 minutes and private pay. For broader legal and website limits, read the Disclaimer page rather than relying on this overview alone.
Common Questions
Is everything in counseling always confidential?
No. Ordinary legal limits include serious risk of harm, suspected abuse or neglect of a child or vulnerable adult, and a court order.
Will John keep a secret from my partner?
John's policy about information shared outside joint sessions is something he explains directly. This page does not state or assume that policy.
How long are sessions and what do they cost?
Sessions are 50 minutes and $175. The first 30-minute consultation is free. John works on a private-pay basis and does not bill insurance directly, though some couples have out-of-network benefits worth asking their plan about.
Take the Next Step
If any of this sounds like your relationship, the next step is a free 30-minute consultation. Both of you can meet John, ask what you want to ask, and decide together whether to schedule a first session. You can also call or text 817-381-0691.